Trying to get to the person I was over four yrs ago is the toughest struggle in my life so far, this coming from a person who buried her husband 10 yrs ago and was left with 2 children to bring up shows how bad it is to have been involved with a N. Still on the NC & its been 5 weeks now. I am trying to heal and this blog is the best thing that ever happend to me. I realise that it wasn’t me and there was never anything else that I could of done to make things work. When am having a bad day these blogs are a click away and then I feel soooo much better.
Thank you for that 
Dear Bluenose: You’ve made my day – letting me know what a help my blog is to you.
It takes a long time to recover from the N.
You’ll get there, don’t worry.
ES